怎么用英语改善人际关系

怎么用英语改善人际关系

国内外国人渐渐越多，学好一口英语也尤为重要，现在小编就教大家如何用英语改善人际关系。

What are the most important

What are the most important personal traits linking to

success in business? Recent research indicates that human

relations are very important in business. “Integrity” and

“ability to get along with others” are by far the most important

success-related characteristics while “inability to understand

others” and “inability to work with others” two most common

failings. Luckily, human relations skills can be learned, and

practice helps to improve performance.

How to Improve interpersonal relationship

One skill that is helpful in working with people is being able

to observe accurately. Most of time, we see events around us

from a very personal viewpoint. Our observations are usually

laced with assumptions and inferences that distort our ability to

see what is happening. Practice in accurate observation helps us

to respond more appropriately to the people around us.

The second skill is listening. Listening to other is the most

important skill we can learn. We can learn to hear what the other

people are saying without defensiveness or judgmental attitudes.

We can learn ways to respond, so that other person knows that

we have heard what he or she was trying to say.

The third area for learning in human relations is assertiveness:

expressing our needs, feelings and ideas clearly, but without

stifling others or putting them down. Many interpersonal

problems arise from our inability to say what is on our minds in

a proper way that people can accept.

The fourth area related to our ability is to recognize the

culturally conditioned values of people we work with, and to be

able to take them into account. Especially when these values

clash with our own, we need to be sensible to the implications of

this conflict for our work.