Arranged Marriage

Sweety

200931050

Class 4B

Assignment and sources

Marriage or Life Arranged

Arranged Marriage is an illegal behavior that the third person or the family

arranges the marriage. It is terrible for the freedom marriage in the modern

society. But arranged marriage is common in some Chinese family. It’s a big

problem.

The main reason of being arranged marriage is the children’s parents ignore

the happiness of them. The parents think the marriage is a business deal.

Most of the parents marry their children to the rich family or some which would

get help in their business or polity. They never think about whatever their

children will have a good life in the future or have a good marriage. It is

irresponsible and unfair for the children and it’s a disregard of human right.

There is an old beautiful legend in ancient China. The story is about two young

people who has fall in love with each other. But their parents both arrange their

marriages with rich family. At the end of the story, they are both die for the old

marriage system. (It is an old story in China, each Chinese know it.)

Arranged marriage will cause the betrayal of marriage. In the new arranged

family, the two people have no common hobby and habits even though they

didn't know each other before they get married, so they have no personal

relationship between them based on love. I find some examples on the

Internet. Some new families are arranged by their parents. Although they have

legally married, in fact they both love the third person out of their marriage. It

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Sweety

200931050

Class 4B

Assignment and sources

makes them ignore each other, and accumulate many contradictions during

the inconsequential details of daily life. Some day they will break out a big fight.

(There are many examples like this. And there are also many things happened

in my family. So it’s clear for me about arranged Marriage affect.)

More seriously is that arranged Marriage will result in the domestic violence

and improve the marriage divorce. It will have a bad effect with their children’s

psychological during they are growing up. Recently more and more domestic

violence are reported. I have read a piece of news about a woman who is

arranged to marry a rich guy. Due to the different opinions for life and many

details mistakes happened in daily life, the woman has thrown the vitriol to her

husband. ( I found this example on the internet.)

Through the above three examples, it can prove that arranged Marriage is a

great harm for children’s life or marriage. The parents should be care about

their children not only the benefits in business. Or it will change the

happiness of your children in their whole life.

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